How To Handle Your Mortgage In A Divorce
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Divorce and Mortgage
Short of getting married, buying a house with your partner for life (or intended partner for life) is possibly the most concrete commitment you can make to them. In fact, as marriages frequently end in divorce within ten years, and the average amortization period for a mortgage is considerably longer, it could be said that it is in many ways a bigger commitment. Regardless, joining together to buy a house which you will share as a couple is a big move, and bigger still if you are joint account holders on the mortgage. An even bigger move is if you divorce while you are still paying off the mortgage – creating conditions for some of the most unpleasant times of your life, if you do not both swiftly resolve to conduct the entire process with maturity and dignity.
When a couple divorce, there is always a question over the marital home. Will it simply be sold with the couple splitting the money equally or according to a ratio of their choice? Will one partner buy out the other? It is for both of you to decide. It may be that one partner wants a clean breakaway and intends to leave the area, in which case the only thing that remains is whether the remaining partner wishes to stay in the house and can meet the full mortgage payment. It is important at an early stage to consult your mortgage agent in order to find out exactly how it affects your specific mortgage.
There may be some justification for applying for a new mortgage – whether this be for the purposes of buying out your spouse’s half of the equity in the house or in order to search for a new home. If this is the case then it is important to take account of the fact that there will be some changed data on the new application and that you are unlikely to have the same borrowing power as an individual that you did as a couple. Indeed, it is often worth involving the mortgage in discussions between lawyers if the divorce is to be conducted with the help of legal representation. This can help to divide it fairly and equally.
It is also worth taking into account that debt taken out in joint names will affect the credit scoring of both parties. Sorting out the issue of the mortgage is in this case all the more important, as acrimony over a divorce can be multiplied if one partner is considered to be behaving in any way that is injurious to the other. Although the marriage may have come to an end – potentially a very unpleasant end – the couple who are separating will usually have bought the house together at a time when they were very much in love, and its sale, or even departure from it by one of the parties can cause a great deal of heartache. It is sensible in this case to be businesslike although not insensitive, and making things easier will include smoothing out any financial issues – in which the divorce must be considered a priority.